Tips for Attracting men

Many women out there are seeking out some key tips for attracting men. The problem is and I have referred to it numerous times elsewhere on this site: When it Comes to Men, Women Just Don't Understand.

Remember over at How to Get a Boyfriend I recommended Men Made Easy (because to some of us women they just seem ssssooo difficult)  by Kara the female cultural anthropologist? Well I would just like to emphasize what I said when I gave you all some  basic advice on how to get a boyfriend. You have to understand what men want.

A man, Bob Grant agrees. He is a  Licensed Professional Counselor aka The Relationship Doctor is the author of “The Woman Men Adore”.

I decided to share this with you because it is important to get a man's perspective. Bob shares that every day in his counseling office, he hears women say some variation of this: 

In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me.  They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love.  Was it me? 

The women often complain that they see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive or as thin as they are but who seem to get the “hot” men.  Men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them.  

Understand What Men Want

These women want to know what secrets do the successful women know. They want to understand what men want. Sounds familiar?

Bob argues that most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man but the truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. WOW! They attracted them. Remember what I said about being a happy woman, what the wise old woman advised?

Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? If you think the best way to find out probably isn’t by hearing it from a woman and think that instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart, to help you to understand what men want, then check out what Bob has to say.