Things that make a guy sexy to me.

by B.
(Australia)

My sexy guy.

Would you believe that a balding, pot bellied man could be incredibly sexy? Well, mine is.

Here are some things that he does that make him a perfect 10 on my "sexy man scale":

• he cleans up after I cook dinner
  
• he gives me hugs during the day without expecting anything in return just because
  
• he tells me he loves me EVERY DAY as soon as we wake up (we have been together 8 years now and he still does it)
  
• he is a really great father and our teenagers usually go with their problems to him before they come to me (the thing is they are MY biological kids, not his)
  
• if other women make a pass at him (and they do), he will not flirt with them, but makes it clear I am the only one for him
  
• he NEVER rises his voice to me (or the kids), has never called me a name or put me down in any way
  
• if I ask him to do something for me he either does it immediately, or tells me when he will be able to do it
  
• he trusts me completely and so I can go wherever I want, with whomever I want and I don't have to justify any of my actions (I would never abuse that trust obviously)
  
• he never questions what I do with the money, he trusts my judgement
  
• he smells really nice
  
• he regularly makes breakfast so that I can sleep in
  
• he loves my parents and does not mind them visiting even for weeks at the time
  
• if I have to go for a longer trip anywhere, he will make sure that my car is fully serviced so that I will be safe
  
• he makes sure that he spends some quality time just with me every week, even when he is really busy
  
• he believes in me and even though I had lost money on some ventures he had never held it against me, but encourages me to learn from the experiences and take more chances
  
• he tells me regularly how beautiful I am, even though I pretty darn know that I am quite average, but in his eyes I am stunning

I could write a list 10 times as long, but what it boils down to is that what makes a guy incredibly sexy to me is respect, trust and how he makes me feel about myself.
Needless to say, he gets more than his fare share of loving in the bedroom, and I spoil him totally as well (he loves it).