Sexy is Sincere, Sensitive, Sweet Smelling and Hot

by Leesa
(UK)

You are right, it is probably easier to say what is not sexy and then it is not too difficult to come up with appealing qualities:

1. Sincerity - I hate a man who plays me. If you are going to lie then say goodbye. We love to hear sweet things yes but eventually we will know if you mean it. And yeah hell hath no fury after that. Be honest even if you are telling me something I won't like and you will get ahead.
   
   
2. Assertiveness - Aggression can be a big turn off. Now let me be clear on this. Sexy is not necessarily mild mannered, and being aggressive is not necessarily the same as being assertive which yes oh yes can be sexy - standing up for yourself and me of course is wonderful; but aggression, now that is something else, that can translate into issues of power, domination, emotional and physical abuse. Not sexy!! I don't mind a shy guy but I'm not attracted to bullies nor wimps for that matter.
   
   
3. Hygiene - Yuck! This is a big turn off. If you managed to get fairly close to someone you won't be getting any closer.a man approaches me with bad breath I won't forget that in a hurry. For me all is lost then. Some men are too lax about their hygiene. A man who is attentive about his appearance and cleanliness gets my attention.
   
   
4. Looks - Who are we kidding? We all love a hot looking guy. I love a man who looks good. Well toned, nice complexion, nice teeth and tall. I don't think I could ever date a guy who is shorter than me. You see I', 5'4" so anything about 6' is great. OK OK 5'10" will work too.